eramus, sumus, erimus

let go of who you were to become who you are. that's nice translation of let go of the past and live in the present.

But isn't who you were makes you who you are right now? it doesn't necessary mean that you are who you were. Doesn't your past help shape your future? Doesn't your experience affects the decision you are making? Are we supposed to "reset" our mind and heart? Lets suppose that we "reset" ourselves, doesn't that inherently mean that we are doing the same thing over and over again? We will still be making the same decision that we made before, choosing the same thing we have chosen before. After we are still who we are/were???

Maybe there's nothing that we are "supposed" to do, we just do..

I'm already confusing and contradicting myself..

we were, we are, we will be...