Calling a spade a spade

A fling a fling, an affair an affair, what we pretend to be a relationship.... not a relationship

I hate saying goodbyes, it is always more emotional than needed be. Silent disengagement is necessary sometimes..

"Sometimes, letting go is healthy for everyone involved" I was told. Maybe it is.. 

how do we know?

how do we know for sure? Heisenberg says we can't.

we won't so just get off your high horse, put away the mask of pride and take every day as it comes. even if it means for you to take the first step for once this time, even if it means that you might and sometime, definitely will, be rejected. In the end, it could be a very short sentence in your book of life or it could be the paragraph that sets the tone for the following chapters...

eramus, sumus, erimus

let go of who you were to become who you are. that's nice translation of let go of the past and live in the present.

But isn't who you were makes you who you are right now? it doesn't necessary mean that you are who you were. Doesn't your past help shape your future? Doesn't your experience affects the decision you are making? Are we supposed to "reset" our mind and heart? Lets suppose that we "reset" ourselves, doesn't that inherently mean that we are doing the same thing over and over again? We will still be making the same decision that we made before, choosing the same thing we have chosen before. After we are still who we are/were???

Maybe there's nothing that we are "supposed" to do, we just do..

I'm already confusing and contradicting myself..

we were, we are, we will be...

تخت جمشید , Persepolis

Reading about Iran again, no connection there, just unexplainable attraction. 

I've frequented Takht-e Jamshid, the throne of Jamshid, in my dreams and yet she still took my breath away with the grandiosity of the ancient structures. The sun shone on the sand, the archaic columns and it was shining as if it was made of gold. Yet, nothing I found online resembles what I imagined it to be.. and why should it? This is the best that I could find and it is not enough..

Ruins of Persepolis

http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/geopedia/Iran_Archaeology

A New Chapter

in the world of Facebook and Tweeter, sometimes we tend to share too much with strangers online. Is it because we don't actually share enough with our friends and family?

at what point do we reveal so much of ourselves that we lose our identity in this virtual world?  why let 140 characters define our character?